What Actually Happens at a Mehendi Ceremony

Rituals | 5 min read
What Actually Happens at a Mehendi Ceremony

The Mehendi is one of the most relaxed and joyful functions of an Indian wedding. If it is your first, here is what to expect.

The henna

Professional artists apply intricate henna designs to the bride's hands and feet, often hiding the groom's initials within the pattern. The process can take several hours, so the bride usually sits on a comfortable, decorated seat while the celebration continues around her.

Guests get henna too

Most Mehendis have artists for the guests, with simpler designs that take a few minutes. It is a lovely, easy way to take part.

Music, food and games

Expect folk songs, light dancing, relaxed snacks and often some friendly family games. It is usually a daytime event on a lawn or terrace, with bright florals, swings and low seating.

What to wear

Choose colourful, comfortable outfits. Avoid anything you would hate to get stained, and wear something with sleeves that are easy to keep away from wet henna.

After the henna

The paste is left to dry and then flaked off, never washed. The colour deepens over the next day or two. Traditionally, a darker stain is considered a sign of affection.

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